Every month I start seeing the signs. Dramatically (and I do mean DRAMATICALLY) increased energy level. Dramatically increased irritability. Easy to anger. Easy to cry. Disjointed thoughts and speech patterns. Increased OCD behavior. Increased verbal stimming. Sleeping issues. No need to look at my moon phase app, I know it's that damn full moon again- messing The Boy (and me) all up. To top it off- it's the so called "Super Moon" so there's that. I really wonder if the tug of the Earth is felt on a deeper level for him, causing everything to be out of whack.
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And this is not unique to my son. All over Facebook and Twitter, spectrum parents are saying virtually the same thing. Our kiddos are "off". And this isn't just from parents, teachers say the same thing. So what is it? Are we all suffering from some group hallucination? I mean, the word "lunatic" comes from the Latin ‘luna’ meaning moon and can mean someone who goes mad with the changes of the moon. so is it our kids, or is it us? Maybe our kids actually suffer from lycanthropy and this is the explanation for the Autism dial being turned up to about a bajillion. (Imagine that- an autistic werewolf...)
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According to an article in Scientific American there is a theory that that the full moon’s supposed effects on behavior arise from its influence on water. The human body, after all, is about 80 percent water, so perhaps the moon works its mischievous magic by somehow disrupting the alignment of water molecules in the nervous system. But the article also goes on to say that "the gravitational effects of the moon are far too minuscule to generate any meaningful effects on brain activity, let alone behavior." So what gives? This seems to be in direct opposition to the many, MANY folks who say their ASD kiddos act "loony" during a full moon. I have read so many theories, some plausible, some ridiculous, but even though "Full Moon Madness" has been supposedly debunked- it is apparent that those doing the "de-bunking" weren't raising or caring for someone on the spectrum. Or heard the mountain of anecdotal evidence from law enforcement, labor and delivery nurses, or doctors working in psychiatric facilities.
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I am so very tired, the moon is even screwing my sleep patterns up- about 6 hours of sleep over the last 2 nights makes for a VERY crabby mom. The Mister thinks I am crazy - and when I ask if he remembers the major meltdowns that just happened to coincide with the last full moon, he just gives me this blank look. I am around The Boy more often, so it's no wonder I see these behaviors I guess. I am either more in tune with his ups and downs, or I myself am also feeling the effects of the full moon.
Right now, I am thinking it's after noon on a Sunday- that's not too early for a glass of wine, right? I am also sending Teenzilla and The Mister to the movies. I would love to take The Boy, but between his behaviors and my exhaustion, we really shouldn't be unleashed on an unsuspecting public. I will just curse that damn moon.
Quella luna pazza- that crazy moon....
Quella luna pazza- that crazy moon....
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